Sometimes, we as parents contribute to some of the things our kids go through or get into .we are raising kids in homes with no love .They grow up with abusive parents who have no time for them .with an absent dad, their only father figure is a distant uncle. sometimes our children act a certain way because they don’t know any other way .They don’t have anyone to teach them or correct them when they go wrong .It’s time we stepped up as parents and guardians to our kids. If your child grows up watching you stagger home in the middle of the night drunk ,he will grow up not seeing anything wrong with it and that is the path he will most likely take .let’s bring up children in a home filled with laughter and smiles. Not a house filled with liquor bottles and the stench of cigarettes . Holidays with relatives and feasts not in clubs with people you don’t know